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Thanks to : deoni1912

about loving someone virtually


For me, love is mentally, physically, has to be there.

it is my own requirements that I need to do so to have a whole relationship.

Before there was such things as internet, LDR is almost non-existant.
Nowadays, people rely on the internet, as a media to transfer love to a distant continent and being able to feel love that they could not get from around them.

I believe, getting to know someone online.. IS FINE.
BUT IF you want to date the person, I myself, would need to see, and be together physically with that person.

To fall inlove with a person that they never see, only judging by what they type... for me.. that is a fake relationship. There are things that as a person, we cannot just judge someone by reading what they type.


Call me old school, but back in the days where there were no internet, I think people are FINE looking for someone who can complement them without looking someone that is far away than them.
I think... those who developed relationship over the internet without meeting the other person at all.... Are either too Lazy or too Buzy.



Some Reasons why...

I believe, many internet users are having somekind of depression.
internet is a place where they can feel like they have a family *virtual family that is* where they feel accepted while they're running away from problems with parents / studies / money.

while having depression, they built relationship, virtual based security where they haven't even know the person, they've never met a person, thinking that other person is the One without ever meeting them face to face.
(yes.. love is only a sense of security.. where they might not get it in real life, that is why internet is utilized to have one)

as human, we try to adapt and cope with our problems and our situations.
some have relationship on the internet when lonely, some are just looking to get easy laid, some are actually trying to find someone to get married, desperation, etc...


But for me...
relationship on the internet is like reading a book
real life relationship is like watching a movie derived from the book itself

when a person love the book (no image whatsoever, all depended on their own imaginary vision of the story) once it is displayed on how it suppose to be in the movies.... they dislike the movie thinkin the book is better.

Why?!?
because we create our own imagination of what that person suppose to be.
Words are not enough, telephone conversations are not enough, spending money and time are not enough.

i'm not saying it won't work...
i'm not saying that people who loved the book will never love the movie...

BUT... most likely... it does not



i can only suggest one thing....
once u think u have an interest with this person, meet them right away to find out the real truth.
u might be surprised..
If you Have met the person

i find that most people who already met, and had relationship for more than 2+ years (Real Relationship) and then..because of something.. they had to try LDR... works Better than pure online relationships ....well... but still.. chances in breaking up is very high because of expectations (love is egoistical most of the time)


to add... the True beauty of reading a book is the same as having an online relationship...
you can imagine how this perfect person complements you in every way..
giving you a virtual satisfaction sense of security and love.

books, definately tickle our brain doesn't it?
I love reading books, but real life... well... that's a different story ain't it?



BENEFITS?

so far.. i just see no benefit in having LDR...
1. Costs Time & Money
2. challenges such as communication and misunderstanding
3. uneasyness because of the time difference
4. unable to have real physical attraction (no.. webcam does not count)
5. did i say money yet?
6. paying communication with parents' money? You're wasting their money, not yours.
7. distrust may affect your judgement, and behavior in your workplace, school, or your circle of friends.


keuntungan?
for me.... none.
but if you're desperate for love, low self esteem, naive, can't find girls locally, .....and LDR is the only way to get it.....i guess go for it.


It is all about.. Your Attitude toward life.
Those who play the internet alot, and don't hang around much, and always judge others and decline love offers in real life,... most likely, you'd fine one on the internet.

You may fall in love with the person online, and turned out, he rarely brushes his teeth, he smells like a baked cow's shit all day long, he drives like a maniac.... I mean.. those are just somethings that you can't see online.
But, when you see it first in real life.... you already be dissapointed by those characteristics.



So, if your attitude is not getting involved with LDR, you wont!
I believe finding a person online is fine, and just meet them right away, see if you guys click.
If I love that person soo much, I'd even willing to move closer to her, or she can move closer to me. *IF AND ONLY IF I MET HER ALREADY*




hmmm, i guess that is all for now.


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gw smakin sayang aja ma kamuh..!!!
uuugh... seandainya.....................................